Ladies: If you want something, just fucking ask for it in plain language. Men do not pick up on hints, even if they try, and, let's be honest, they're not going to because we're not interested in mind-games. Just stop it, okay? Stop it with the fucking hints. If you don't get what you want because you didn't explicitly say so in so many words, you don't deserve to get it. This ties into the above note: if you want him to find your clit, show him. This is not rocket science.